Sunday 21 July 2013

The stingy Scorpio and defensive Aries

Friday, after work.. Went to your house, thought about seeing you. Wanting to see you.
But you're not there, your car was around. I couldn't wait for too long. Your parents will be back. And you are going for games. I am dead tired, after whole day of presentation and mental torture.

On my way back home, thought of wanting to read some articles about Aries and Scorpio..
About how these 2 special and powerful horoscope could have work together, and what are the conflicts they may have.

First one from www.astrology.com:
http://www.astrology.com/love-compatibility-aries-scorpio/2-d-lvmt-aries_scorpio

"Both Signs love power and they can achieve just about anything — as long as they learn to share the spotlight."
"Aries is a Fire Sign and Scorpio is a Water Sign. These two elements can be a great combination if they work together, combining emotion and physical action to get things done. Scorpio is a strategist, and can help Aries slow down and learn how to plan battles before jumping into them. Aries teaches Scorpio to let go and move on when their efforts are thwarted. However, Water can also put out a Fire, and Scorpio’s tendency toward emotional manipulation has that effect on Aries — it’s too much Water dampening Aries’s enthusiasm. Conversely, too much Fire makes Water evaporate away; when under emotional stress, Scorpio can become vindictive. It’s essential for Aries and Scorpio to work together, not against one another."

After reading this, I thought to myself 
"What if I could learn to listen a little bit more and not too hard-headed?" 

Secondly from www.ask-oracle.com:
http://www.ask-oracle.com/sign-compatibility/aries-scorpio/

The bond shared by an Aries and a Scorpio is very intriguing but at the same time tough to keep. They have a strong pull towards each other but harmony is difficult to be attained between these two. They are both passionate in their own ways and but their styles and expressions are different.
Aries folks are highly independent and hate to be dictated over any subject whether personal or professional. Aries beings are impulsive, quick-tempered and emotional. They are not bothered by the cautions others use by analyzing situations, they proceed to act based on emotions rather than intellect. Aries are typically on the defense trying to protect their sensitive nature. Aries never goes looking for a fight, but when one is picked with an Aries one can better watch out. They respond with fiery rage and most are left not knowing how to extinguish the fire. At the same time they can tend to be selfish and egotistical. Aries are committed but lose interest quickly if something has lost its excitement.
Scorpios are strong personages, filled with mystery, who are constantly looking for power and are quite loyal to their loved ones. Beneath the soft voice of Scorpios lie their subtle strategies to enhance their career and personal life. They can handle pretty much any situation on their own and are most tolerable to almost all things. Scorpios can lean more towards the offensive, but not so much out of the irrational rage. They strike once and when they strike, they strike hard. They use their intellect to plan and strategize their attack while often using deception to target and exploit another’s weakness. When a Scorpio is pushed, they do not run, but they wait for the right moment to unleash their fury. And this comes without warning. Scorpios are perfect teachers of will power and stability.
It would make sense that Aries learns to cooperate with Scorpio through experience. This type of cooperation requires an Aries to respectfully distance them self. The nature of a Scorpio requires that they need to learn early on, through emotional development, social skills such as forgiveness, empathy, courtesy and respect for authority. These allow healthier social interactions and relationships. In other words, they must learn to work through things and resolve issues and exhaust all avenues for compromise. On the positive side, Scorpio and Aries mesh well in the areas of loyalty and principle. Neither does compromise these attributes, which seems to draw them closer to each other. But both are set in their ways “having it their way”, for the Scorpio does not accepts defeat and the Aries must win. Scorpio never gives in, never admits defeat. Aries is likewise dedicated fiercely to winning. Yet, there’s another Scorpio quality, intangible, indefinable, that Aries finds impossible to comprehend; the long lasting will power of a Scorpio.
These two can accomplish many feats together as long as they respect each other’s differences. An Aries and a Scorpio does best when they both learn that neither one take any heat for the other. They are both fighters and have no problem standing up for themselves or the cause in which the both dearly believe. The Aries benefit most by realizing that they cannot break the will of a Scorpio. If they learn how to work best together they rarely find themselves in defeat. These two strive to win, no matter the game. These two make a fiery determined team. There are occasional moments when the Scorpio’s sharp stare of angry disapproval, or overpowered will, can be out-and-out chilling to an Aries, causing the Aries to inwardly shiver. Their strategies are very different. But generally they make out things peacefully.
In the happy Aries-Scorpio associations, the Aries responds beautifully to the Scorpio friend, neighbor, relative, business associate, lover or mate. Lovers share a passionate relationship with much to share on emotional level and even more on physical level. 
There are some major differences in the behavior of Aries and Scorpio that lead to aggressive moments in their relations. Aries defends intensely, in the front lines. Scorpio attacks out of the blue and without warning. At war, these two are natural enemies can go to any extend to taste victory. Aries can feel over dominated by Scorpio and can throw some angry words at them while Scorpio finds Aries impulsive and careless and thus does not trust them. Their look at to money is also different. Scorpio likes luxury but still they love to keep money for financial security while Aries are spontaneous at spending money without thinking of future. Harmony and cooperation is the best way they can find each other comfortable and it begins with love and trust in any relationship.
Seriously, after reading, it's definitely the "Oh my god.." moments..
Just what if the foolish me could understand this bit earlier.

Another one from Oracle:

The Aries and the Scorpio makes an unusually exciting pair with Aries to provide lots of enthusiasm and Scorpio to provide commitment in the relationship. Aries are direct while Scorpios are more circuitous in expressing love. Moreover Aries have fluctuations in their behavior, whereas, Scorpios are stable and steady.
A Scorpio man is a superhuman being with a blend of passion, intellect and a magnetic attraction that is challenging to avoid. His mind is sharp, critical, cautious and skeptical making him unique and interesting. He is a perfect picture of will power and stability. When in love with an Aries woman, he gives her love and care with all the passion of this world and the other world. He is one of a kind shielding lover and is always by the side of his lady to protect her from the cruel world. He is very tolerant and gives his Aries woman complete freedom to enjoy her individuality. But if he is pushed, he never backs off but waits for the right time and take revenge.
An Aries woman is defensive in behavior and tries to protect her sensitive nature from hurts and pains. She is a bit confused person who responds with fiery rage and is usually left not knowing how to extinguish the fire. She is quick minded and able to see through manipulation easily, this makes her admire her Scorpio man who is truly sincere. She appreciates his loyalty and provides him with equal passion in the relationship. At times Scorpio man may find her to be selfish and egotistical. But once this woman is committed she is extremely sentimental and loyal regarding the relationship.
An Aries woman makes a quick impression on the Scorpio man with her pleasant purity and strong courage and blind faith in his love. Emotionally she is on the same level of attraction and vigor as that of her Scorpio man. She is one of the few women, to whom the Scorpio is willing to reveal his unexposed side. In fact he is one of the few males, she allows to dominate her. She brings new enthusiasm and changes in his life to make him feel more regenerated. She deeply respects the loyalty of Scorpio male and feels secure around him which gives her new energy to try exciting things in her life. But to keep an Aries female committed, excitement has to be kept on its pace because an Aries lose interest quickly if relationship has lost its excitement.
The constancy of a Scorpio man attracts an Aries woman strongly as she herself lacks it. He is a perfect man for an Aries lady who wants her womanhood to be admired and her individuality to be accepted. He is one of a kind loyal person who does not show any interest in outer world once he is actually in a committed relationship and is satisfied with his lady. He is one person who accepts the aggressive attitude of her and is tolerant to her fiery temper. He always gives attention to all the interests of her and is always by her side to support her and make her feel protected. But the suspicious nature of the Scorpio man can put her on a trail with many questions pouring on. This can make her furious and can create differences in their love life.
There is a depth in the love between Aries woman and Scorpio man that is seldom equaled for sheer passionate, devotion and spiritual closeness. Mentally they may be two different worlds but their emotional closeness brings them in an ecstasy that lacks in most of the usual couples. As their love reaches deeper emotional levels, she smoothly manages to tolerate his superiority, infuriating silence and deep wells of secrecy and he also calmly overlooks her flows of jealousy, financial extravagance and frequent demands for attention in an immature emotional approach. As they both overcome their differences with their strong bond of trust and attachment, she receives enduring happiness with her Scorpio man and he becomes the man of her dreams for whom she gives up all her egos and selfishness. Their oneness create an angelic peace in their existence making them fall in love with each other more and more with each passing day.
A sexual relationship between the two is very fulfilling. He provides her with the feelings of eternal love she needs. Sexual attraction lasts for a very long time for them. The passion between them is extremely strong giving both of them divine physical and emotional satisfaction which brings them closer every time they make love. When she is in full submission to him, he feels her so much more pure this way, so much more vulnerable, exposed, and open. His intense desires in make her feel so full, so fleshy, so wet with arousal. Their physical intimacy becomes stronger with time developing more trust and faith in their relation. The only area where sex can cause problems between them is her tendency to exaggerate his strong appeal for women into accusations of unfaithfulness. The Scorpio can also cause problems by reading the Aries free and friendly manner as flirting with other men. It would be wise for him to realize that she’s too honest and full of ideals about love to commit adultery without extreme provocation, and even then, she confesses it almost before it happens.
When an Aries woman and a Scorpio man are attracted towards each other, the attraction is very mutual both emotionally and physically having long-lasting bond. The reliability and protectiveness of the Scorpio man always clicks her while her individuality and innocence makes him fall for her instantly. Both of them share the common emotion of passion which is raw in Aries and ripen in Scorpio but still they enjoy each others’ sides well. But the envious, selfish and controlling attitude of Aries is hard for the Scorpio to match up with while the Aries hate the mysterious and doubtful nature of the Scorpios. Both of them need to manipulate their personal tiffs and perceptual creations to maintain harmony and improve their relationship.
*SIGH 

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  2. My best friend is an Aries I'm a Scorpio. Sometimes the things she says ,not thinking about them by the way,hurt.I have to remind myself she doesn't think about things like I do. Scorpios overthink Aries just says what pops in their heads. If your a scorpio who wants any type of relationship with Aries you have to remember to talk to them when the conversation is over one on one and do not be over aggressive about it. They may not even realize they hurt you at all.

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